At a Glance
- Parents are creating volunteer projects for toddlers after nonprofits reject them.
- Volunteer New York and New York Cares show children can sort coats, pack groceries and follow directions.
- Programs like VolunTOTs and Tough Cookies prove families can organize community service.
- Why it matters: It gives kids confidence, teaches skills, and strengthens family bonds.
In a world where many nonprofits require volunteers to be 18, parents are turning to creative ways to involve their children in service.
Finding Family-Friendly Volunteering
Polly Lagana, executive director of Volunteer New York!, said:
> “There’s a million different ways to help people and volunteer. So many families want to do this and literally just don’t know where to start.”
Sapreet Saluja, executive director of New York Cares, added:
> “Children excel at activities such as sorting coats, packing groceries and following through on tasks.”
- Sorting coats
- Packing groceries
- Following directions
Creating Your Own Projects
Cami Teacoach started VolunTOTs in Pittsburgh after her toddler’s volunteer requests were denied. She packed 500 boxes of groceries, played bingo with seniors, and made dog treats for an animal rescue center.
Aviva Davis and her brother Brendan began delivering Meals on Wheels in Denver when they were eight. Now 17, Aviva says:
> “It definitely opened my eyes to what the world is like outside of our bubble.”
Her father, Seth Davis, said:
> “It’s a great chance for us to catch up as a family.”
The Bernaba family baked and delivered “Tough Cookies” to veterans. Matthew, now 15, shared:

> “We went to the first couple of places and I was really scared, because I’m more of a shy person.”
Friends often join these projects. Bonnie Davis organized a drive for menstrual supplies and turned half of her son’s graduation party into a bean-soup-making event. She noted:
> “It’s a win for everybody. You get quality time, you’re raising your children with what feels like good values, and people benefit.”
Key Takeaways
- Children can perform meaningful tasks like sorting and packing when given the chance.
- Parents can create their own volunteer opportunities that suit their family’s schedule.
- Community projects strengthen family bonds and provide real help to those in need.
Volunteering with kids is a powerful way to build confidence and give back-just ask your local nonprofit or start a project at home.

