Hook paragraph: When a 20-year-old texts Mom from a doctor’s office, the scene is all too familiar.
Preparing for a Primary Care Visit
Dr. Sarah Nosal, president of the American Academy of Family Physicians, says, “It is really hard – even for me as a doctor going to see my own family doctor – to remember the things that I wanted to bring up,” and adds that the worst part is when a new problem comes to mind after leaving the office. She advises patients to bring a list of symptoms and questions, placing the top concern first, so the doctor can prioritize the most medically urgent issues.
The Role of a Primary Care Provider
Primary care doctors, whether they are family physicians, internists, gynecologists, geriatricians, or part of a team with nurse practitioners or physician assistants, monitor overall health. They offer preventive checkups, vaccinations, cancer screenings, and health advice, while also detecting and treating common problems such as high blood pressure and coordinating specialty care when needed.
Gathering Your Medical History
Young adults who are navigating health care alone often need help filling out forms. Questions such as whether you have had general anesthesia or if your tetanus shot is up to date are common. If a patient still has access to a patient portal from a former pediatrician, they can view vaccination records and prior illnesses, or they may need to request them or ask parents for details.
The Importance of Family History
Nosal stresses that family medical history must be updated regularly. Knowing which close relatives have had diseases such as Type 2 diabetes, strokes, or early-onset cancer can help tailor preventive care. This information is valuable for both the patient and the doctor.
Organizing Medications and Supplements
Filling out paperwork from home makes it easier to check medicine bottles for names and doses. The list should include prescription and over-the-counter medicines, pills, creams, vitamins, and supplements. Some supplements, like turmeric, can interact with prescription drugs; Nosal cites patients whose longtime treatments stopped working after they began taking turmeric.
Checking Lab and Hospital Records
Before the visit, patients should verify that the doctor has received recent lab tests, hospitalizations, or visits to other health providers, as electronic medical records are not always automatically shared.
The Power of a Running Question List
Patients can prepare a list of questions in advance, especially for routine checkups or follow-ups. Noting symptoms such as pain when moving a certain way, or asking about the timing of a colonoscopy, helps prevent forgetting important points. Nosal keeps a running list on her phone and sends it through the patient portal before her own doctor visits.
Addressing Urgent Questions First
The goal is to tackle the most urgent questions first, rather than running out of time before raising a key concern. Mental or sexual health questions often surface at the last minute, so patients are encouraged to bring that list.

Asking for Clarification
Patients should not hesitate to say, “Explain to me what else could be going on,” Nosal advises. She also suggests asking, “What would be the next step? How would you evaluate that for me, to know if it’s this or that?”
Bringing Support to the Appointment
Health advocacy groups recommend bringing a friend or relative, especially when serious or multiple health problems are involved. They can help ask questions and take notes. Nosal reminds patients that whether they are 20 or 85, they will not remember everything from the visit.
Key Takeaways
- Bring a symptom and question list to prioritize urgent concerns.
- Update family medical history and verify medication lists before the appointment.
- Ask clarifying questions and consider bringing a support person.
The article underscores that preparation, accurate information, and open communication are essential for making the most of a primary care visit. By following these practical steps, patients can ensure that their doctor has all the information needed to provide the best care.

